You think you are. You hold on to your perspectives as if they are the gospel truth. Do you have beliefs that were given to you that no longer serve you? Maybe never did. Inspect your every belief and find out if you need to upgrade them.
You form habits from beliefs. Habits are actions taken over and over. These actions follow your beliefs about what is good or bad, what should be or shouldn’t be, what is acceptable or unacceptable. They are ingrained in you like your blood. That is why there is the saying blood is thicker than water, meaning your relatives’ thought patterns are stuck to you more deeply than non-relatives… most of the time teachers, coaches and others you spent a lot of time with excepted. I invite you to see who you are really related to and with. How do they think about things? They will show you about you.
I invite you to cash in just one belief for something that would level up your life. Cash in one ineffective one for something that would serve you. Do you know what belief you would like to leave right here, right now? What belief could you embrace that would create a new habit that will give you more depth and freedom in your life right now? Cash in the old habit right now. It’s not only possible but powerful. Invest in you – the real you. Align your habits with what you really want in your life.
Is this habit serving you? Pick the one you know is not serving you and see what its flip side is for that can unveil what is effective. Every habit that takes you down has a flip side that can give your life, energy, and hope back. Look at that.
Remember that your habits either line up under what you most desire or line far away and rob you of what you most desire.
Which is it for you right now?
What would it take you to shift that habit?
What new habit will you implement?
Be courageous. What do you have to lose but a noose around your…? It’s dragging you around by some part of your being. It owns you. You don’t own it. Create one you can own. There is more on this but first answer these questions.