Do you ever laugh at your own lies? Do you ever see how transparent some peoples lies are? Then what about the great liars who you don’t see it till well after the fact? Then there is the every day brand of lie that we are not even conscious of. Yesterday and today I have heard so many great stories of lies we tell ourselves. There are the known and the unknown varieties both. I want to tell you a story and want you to find how many lies you can unveil. Like finding Waldo. Why would I have you do this? Because it will help you understand others vibrationally. Then know this person is you is us. SO much easier to see the lies of others. Here we go. Open to your non judgmental intuition.
I spoke with this woman last nite and she told me a male friend had brought her over a box of chocolates. She then downed far too many of them and wished she could just throw them back up. It was only at this point that she looked at the card and it said, To Monica. Her name is not Monica so she called the man and said, “Who is Monica?” at which point he said, “Oh I’m sorry I will bring you a gift that is all for you.” The situation is funny in that be got busted. It is funny in so many ways. They were not romantic or friends with benefits just platonic friends but if he was hoping for more this may not have been the best tactic.
Lies you see in this story
My seeings will be at the bottom. I want you to see what you see.
Here is another story. A dear friend of mine is going through a challenging time in the process he has lost his business partner and shed his marriage and is questioning everything in his life. This man is a very good man. He short comings are in the communication arena. He was brought up in a way that valued independence but no kudos for showing or dealing with any real or messy emotions. I called to say I loved him and we were able to speak. I suggested he get a “person” Coach, therapist, mentor who he could speak to. He said he did but he would only think of other things while he was in a session. Why would we do that? He also said he knew he needed to be a better communicator. He actually said, “If you can communicate well you can do anything.” Will you look at the lies here? This is not to feel superior but to see how you can speak to the person below the lies. How can you allow them to feel your support for their essence to expand.
The more tuned in your are to lies the more you can shed your own. The more you can tunnel into the essence under the lies and create an upheaval in the road of their life the more you can support their essence. Seeing beneath the lies we all want the other to believe is truly amazing. Be amazing.
Here are my answers on the first story.
1. Because it was a special day that meant you could eat all the (fill in the blank) with no Karma or repercussions.
2. feeling sick about what she did after she did it and not being willing to take the steps to remedy the situation. (yes throwing up instead of punishing your body by making it process the junk you just gave it)
3. Wanting to be loved so much that you will accept an undisguised regifting. (Not keeping the lie going by calling him with humor)
4. Him wanting someone to think he is a Prince and yet wanting to get caught so there was no committment.
5. When caught in a lie promise you will make it right.
I will tell you my answers to part two in the next blog. Share your answers with me. Share your intuition. You may see more. You may see others.
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