We measure our lives in rememberings. This song reminds us of that, this date reminds of something, at this point last yer we were_ _ _ in fill in the blank. We are meant to remember. It helps us keep our membership in our various clubs. If we didn’t we might just land up going home with the first person who entranced us each nite. We have memory for so many reasons but it often gets in the way of us living full on, full out.
Memories hold us captive. They want us to have what we had that made us happy of made us fell protected or or or. To have a new experience or new way of perceiving we have to unchain ourselves from the perception of the past. These chains are strong and they effect every arena of our lives. They affect our relationships, our ability to lose weight, to succeed in business, with our children literally everything.
Today I was speaking with my next guest on my teleseminar series Allana Pratt (sexy mon and more) and due to interesting events in both of our lives in recent weeks we realized that our conversation on Wed on the Get your Skinny back Teleseminar will be much more profound. If you still want to join click here and I will get you the MP3 of the first call you can still get all the gifts etc. http://darkhibernation.com/get-your-skinny-back-pro/
What we realized was this. Relationships will challenge you. Nothing new. Are you, me, her, ready to be challenged in the wounded areas? Are we more attached to the wounds of the past ie memories or are we willing to trust . Trust not the other person but trust the divine experience that is presenting itself to reveal and heal us.
We all have different perceptions of our experiences okay I will strip down and tell you mine. I was with my family last weekend after traveling and then a really long work week getting much together for the teleseminars and more. I hit the wedding with a weaker than usual magnetic field. I have an amazingly powerful family and there is not allot of love lost on each other. Interestingly many have been in a spiritual community but have gone the other direction. Not demonic lets just say that love and understanding do not abound. There were many components my daughter was there and I hadn’t seen her since December. I got to met the person in her life. It was cold and rainy not my best weather and my daughter had a really bad cough and oh the wedding and reception were outside (the reception at least had space heaters no one expects 40 and rainy in Tucson in April). My father had super triggered my older sister who is still invested in him acting in a certain way ( as if anyone else matters). There are sister who have not spoken to me in years la la la la not one of them came up and asked me how I was doing with my daughter facing this life threatening illness. It really just is neither good nor bad but I got effected. Sad at the deep closed heartedness of it all. Keith had never met anyone except my one brother who was not there. He assumed neutral observer role trying to understand it all. He was amazed by the lack of love and also by how it effected me. He became a great observer. I needed my beloved. Not that I don’t value his neutral observer mind but in this situation I needed my lover.
What came out of this disconnect could have been anything instead we had a great and challenging conversation a couple days later about this and other things that the situation brought up and out. Just as in our physical organs are connected and interconnected our mental and emotional organs are all connected they work for and with each other. Sometimes when so much gets brought up one person will bring something up and then the whole things blows. I’m going to suggest a few things we did that really helped.
Right now going to say join us on the call http://darkhibernation.com/get-your-skinny-back-pro/and I will finish this in part two on the next blog.