I have heard such amazing things this last week. I will share some of them with you, but first, I want to say that if you have felt flung around, ground down, expanded, massively exhausted, elated, and emotional beyond words, then welcome to this amazing time on the planet. The transformation process just keeps expanding the scope of its depth and dimension, taking you right along on the river of change. It is truly the personal, planetary, interpersonal, environmental, global, universal transformational shock and awe. We are being destroyed to be rebuilt in a more courageous, truly empowered, aware, and awakened forms of life, should we choose. What are the tools you need to go through this time.
You can’t buy these at your local store anywhere, but you can purchase them by spending time being quiet and being meditative; by walking around saying, “I like myself, I love myself, and I see my soul.” Walk around when stressed and tuned into your breath. Remember to do the 4-Part Breath. Inhale in 4 short shots (much better than any other shots you will take—from wheat grass to your favorite alcohol) then exhale the same way. You can do it through your nose or your mouth (both work). Doing it is what works, not reading about it.
This is the time to be outrageous. The time to deliver outrageous when needed to awaken the other—not trash talk just to talk trash. If you always talk trash, there is nowhere to go when you need to up the ante. If you threaten too much, you are like the wolf without teeth that declared itself vegetarian. You have to be able to back up your outrageous. One friend told her “asleep” partner (meaning he has been asleep in the relationship for years— as he had a version of their 30+ year relationship that is 25 years old), “I’m ready for an open relationship.” Nothing had worked to wake him up but that simple statement did. And yes, she was prepared to back it up. It was not just an idle threat. You can’t say outrageous things just to say them or you lose your credibility. Sometimes, “outrageous” as an accent to life is very effective as a main course. It’s like eating a gallon of ice-cream in one sitting.
Another gem I heard was a couple realizing that she was the negative, protective mind of their business and he was the expansive, try-anything-positive-mind. But the best part they realized was that together, they created the chalice for the neutral mind to prevail if they could live to their roles and accept the other’s insights and input. She is very creative in other aspects of her life and very cautious in business. He is very intuitive and expansive in business and more cautious in other aspects of life. We each are not one thing in all areas. Check in and see where you are. the Positive mind or the Protective mind? Where do you go to Neutral easily? How quickly can you get to neutral? What chalice have you created for your neutral mind to grow? Make a list of where you are in each aspect in your life. It will give you clarity in a time when clarity is priceless. I have something that will help you more.
May 1st is the day to honor the labor in your life and claim the dance of life. I will be doing a FREE teleseminar on how you can get unstuck. We will use my FLOW method. If you feel stuck or overwhelmed in any area of life, please join me on Stuck to Inspired.
Sign up and you will get a gift. We will also be doing a giveaway on the live call. You must be present to win that. But even if you can’t be present, there will be a replay, so join us and thrive. I look forward to this precious time with you.
All love in the Divine,