These are what I call the landmines of life. They explode on you every time. So when they are active around you excuse yourself actually don’t even do that just leave.
1. Gossip and speaking badly of someone who is not there. Even when you want to.   Know it is taking light and love from you.
2. Speaking badly to someone who is present or acting in a dismissive or cruel way. I know it is called bullying now. You are allowing yourself to disconnect from the other.
3. Exploit someone else’s pain. It will always come back to you. This means on the web, in person, at work home in your car. You don’t have to fix it just don’t utilize it to rise above.
4. See yourself as better or worse than someone else. Look at and see YOU.
5. Believe what is said in anger. Let it go. Be the ocean and realize that is one drop of fluid. Don’t let it light you on fire.
There are so many more but if you take these 5 to heart, to soul and you make a pledge right now that you won’t do or participate in these habits you are on your way to liberation. This are disconnectors and liberation is total connection. What are you going for?
Love and Blessings
Gurutej