Yesterday I spent the day with a dear friend who is dying. Yes I said the “D” word the most scary word in our language. Lets take the fear out of her can we. Lets use this time of love and rebirth the Spring It’s May it’s May the lusty month of May to explore that which seems antithetical to birth, death.
In the midst of this lust and amazing blooming both internally and externally resides death. We are all so busy with “Life” Which is a lie if you don’t acknowledge death you are living the lie. I have a very dear friend who is a young 42 year old mother of a teenage son with every reason to live but the stressors of her life won out. The stressors are what age us. The stressors are what robber us of our life. I want you to look at your stressors and see how you can work with them instead of against them, that you can pay attention to them instead of ignoring them. Make a list of what is stressing you in your life. Here are the mail categories.
Please rate these. Put them in order of stress 1-5
Look at how you can do something differently. This can be anything from realizing how you can change your perception of the situation to making a list of actions you can take to asking someone in your life who’s perspective you trust how they would deal with it to getting some coaching to expand your possibilities. (yes I do that coaching)
What are you willing to do about that stressor? What is your commitment to follow through? Who is holding your accountable to this commitment?
Death is the ultimate wake up call. What can we do to walk freely with death and yet not be consumed by it? What can we do to use this birth time to look at what is killing us and how to make it a life giver instead of a life robber.
Connect with me. I can help you with this. I am here. I am sitting with Death and looking her in the face. Seeing her beauty and choosing life.
Lets let the stressors go so our lives can be a powerful life.
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